英语四级六级培训课程

做个聆听者

时间:2022-3-25 作者:普特英语网

Many people neglect this most important communication skill.

很多人忽略了这一最为要紧的交流方法。

Do you know that we spend an average of our waking day communicating?

你是不是积压物资大家醒着时有一半的时间是用来交流的?

Of this communication time, 9% is spent writing, 16% reading, 30% talking and 45% listening.

在这期间里,9%是通过写,16%是读,30%是说而45%是用来听。

Immediately after hearing something, most of us can recall only 50% of what we hear. Within two to eight weeks, we can recall only 25% or less of the original message. Our mental attitudes reduce our ability to retain what we hear.

一听完某件事,大部分人只能记住其中之一的50%,两至八个星期内,大家只能记得原信息的25%,甚至更少。大家的精神状况削弱了大家的记忆能力。

Some suggestions to being a good listener are mentioned below.

以下是关于如何做个好听众的建议:

First of all, sTOP talking—-you can’t listen while you are talking.

第一,停止讲话——你说话时是没办法听。

Ask questions—-when you don’t understand, when you need further clarification, when you want them to like you and when you want to show that you are listening.

问问题——如你不甚理解,你需要进一步澄清,当你期望他们喜欢你并且想证明你正在听时。

Don’t interrupt—-give them time to say what they have to say.

不要打岔——给他们时间说他们需要说的所有。

Concentrate on what they are saying—- actively focus your attention on their words, their ideas and their feelings as they relate to the subject.

集中精神听他们说——当他们说到主题时,主动把你的注意力放在你们的言语思想和感情上。

Look at the prospect—- by looking, it gives them confidence that you are, in fact, listening. It helps you to concentrate too.

看着前方——通过望他们,他们就更有信心,说明你正听他说话,这也能够帮助你集中精神。

Leave your emotions behind—-try to forget your own worries and problems. Leave them outside of the meeting room. They will prevent you from listening well.

搁置情感——暂时忘记你一个人的烦恼和问题,把它们都通通留在会议室门外,由于它们会叫你没法好好听。

Understand the main points —-concentrate on the main ideas and not the illustrative material.

理解要素——集中精力听主要意思而非说明性材料。

Don’t argue mentally—-when you are trying to understand other people, it is a handicap to argue with them mentally as they are speaking. This only sets up a barrier between yourself and the speaker.

切忌激烈地争论——假如你想理解其他人哀兵必胜说的话,那样在其他人说话的时候与其他人激烈地争论就会成为一大障碍。这只能在你与说话人之间设下一道鸿沟。

Use the difference in rate—-you can listen faster than you can talk. So use this rate difference to your advantage by staying on the right track, anticipating what they are going to say, thinking back over what they have just said and evaluating the development of their argument. You speak at about 100 to 150 words per minute, but you think at 250 to 500.

不一样的速率——听总快过说。因此你应该通过不一样的估计以发挥你的优势。譬如站在适合的地方,设想一下他们要说些什么,回想一下他们刚刚说了什么,并估计下段进展怎么样,说话时的语速是一分钟100至250至500字。

Learn to listen and you will achieve a great success in your life.

掌握聆听,日后定会成功。

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