Whoever Makes The Best Life Adjustments Wins
There’s a huge power in knowing how to make adjustments in life. In fact, it’s possible to turn failure into success by making the right adjustments. The trick is in knowing where the adjustment is needed and how much.
For example, I’m a huge sports fan, and it always amazes me how a team can come back from getting stomped by simply making a few adjustments. For instance, the coach will change one player in the line up, change a play or even make a minor tweek in his game plan, and bam! Winning!
I’ve discovered life works the same way. In fact, we call people who have the ability to make the best life adjustments happy. And on the other hand we call people who refuse or neglect to make adjustments sad, frustrated or confused.
Whatever your station in life, age or financial level, everyone will face what I call the 3 C’s. The 3 C’s are change, challenges and choices. The person who handles the 3 C’s the best we call happy and well adjusted.
One obstacle many people trip over is assuming money will help them make the best life adjustments. Wrong! It may help in some ways, but even money won’t help unless you have the knowledge and put in the effort. For instance, dysfunctional wealthy people who find it hard to cope with the challenges, changes and choices of life is not that hard to find.
So, what’s one of the key factors of people who fail to live up to their potential? They fail to make life adjustments when faced with change, challenges or choices. Haven’t you been listening?
Here’s 3 simple but powerful tips to help you make effective life adjustments when faced with the 3 C’s or change, challenges and choices.
1. Learn To Think With Your Eyes and Ears
When you learn how to think with your eyes we call that observation and when you learn how to think with your ears we call that hearing. Most people see but few people know how to observe. The difference between seeing and observing is like the difference between reading and studying.
The same goes with listening. It only requires ears to hear, but it often takes awareness and thought to listen. One factor in helping you to listen better is to hear not only what people say but what they don’t say. Reading body language and voice inflection can help you listen between the lines. All these play an effective role in helping you to think with your eyes and ears.
2. Learn To Go With The Flow
The people who learn to make the best life adjustments cultivate the habit of going with the flow. For example, they refuse to sweat the small stuff., they remain flexible to life changes. The best way to do that is to trust your instincts. The more you do that the more they will work for you.
Worry tends to squash, stifle and smother your God-given instincts. Notice people who can go with the flow and you’ll find a person with sharp instincts they depend on.
3. Be prepared For Change, Challenges and Choices
I’ve saved the best for last,. If you can keep an attitude of preparation you’ll have the best chance of making effective life adjustments. What kind? The kind that can see you through problems, setbacks and challenges.
As the saying goes, If you stay ready – you don’t have to get ready. That’s the best advice for anyone who wants to make the best life adjustments and win! Now you know.